Welcome to Bratland - Who is Welcome?: "You are an adult and have important things to do. You hardly have time to play now that you are a grown up. That is precisely why you are in the mess you are in. You have let the weight of the world pull you down in the dumps. If you are in the dumps it’s a good guess your house is a dump. Your inner child has been alone for years and is craving your attention. Children who crave attention will get it any way they can--even if it’s negative."